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The Question I Didn’t See Coming
That morning, as I stood in the kitchen pretending not to notice the whispered planning happening behind me, my daughter tugged on my sleeve.
“Dad,” she asked, her eyes serious, “what do you actually want for Father’s Day?”
I almost gave the automatic answer. “Nothing, sweetheart. I already have everything I need.” That’s what dads say, right?
But she kept looking at me, waiting for a real answer.
The Truth I Hadn’t Said Out Loud
The truth was, what I wanted wasn’t something you could wrap in a box.
I didn’t want another tie or grilling gadget. I didn’t need a new mug with “World’s Best Dad” printed on it — though I cherish every one I’ve received.
What I really wanted was time. Not distracted time. Not half-scrolling-on-the-phone time. Just time together.
So instead of brushing off her question, I told her.
“I think,” I said slowly, “I’d just like to spend the whole day with you. No errands. No rushing. Just us.”
She smiled like I’d just revealed a secret treasure.
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